1. DIVINE GUIDANCE: Ask God to guide you. There should be an inner
witness concerning the person you want to marry. Do not rely on Visions
and dreams. Rely on God. He still guides if you ask Him.
2. UNITY OF PURPOSE: Look out for someone who see’s the same thing as you do and going the same direction with you. Look for someone that fits into your purpose.
3. FAITHFULNESS: Check if the person is dependable. How reliable are
they? Can you count on what they say? Do they keep their word?
Unfaithfulness is the bedrock of cheating Spouses. No faithful man will
cheat on his woman.
4. MATURITY: It is important you lookout
for a responsible person – Check emotional maturity and at least the guy
should have a source of income. The woman should possess vocational and
domestic qualifications. (Read: How Do I Know He Or She Is Emotionally
Matured)
5. COMPATIBILITY. There are 5 types of compatibility you need to check.
# Check Emotional
# Spiritual Compatibility
# Check Biological Compatibility
# Check intellectual Compatibility
# Check Vocational Compatibility
# Check Recreational compatibility.
(Read: Understanding the 5 Types of Compatibility).
6. FRIENDSHIP: Marry your friend. Don't marry your Lover. (Read: How to
distinguish between a Lover and a friend in 12 ways). A friend can be a
lover but a lover is not always a friend.
7. PHYSICAL
ATTRACTION: There should be attraction between the two people. The
person you want to marry should appeal to you physically. Look for that
one who moves you sexually. Don't marry anyone with whom you are not
sexually attracted. That will be disaster.
8. GENEROSITY: An
ideal marriage is one between two givers. When a giver marries a taker,
the union is very dangerous. It becomes a parasitic relationship and one
party will ends up suffering. Don't marry a stingy man or woman.
9. SEEK COUNSEL: It is important to seek the counsel of your natural
and spiritual parents to get their approval and consent. You need to
seek counsel before making a commitment. Don't make a commitment before
seeking counsel. You can also Talk to me, De Love Guru. It’s part of the
counsel.
10. EMOTIONS: Do not say Yes to a marriage proposal
in a hurry. Take your time. Clear your head. Don’t be emotional about
this important decision. Don't marry out of pity.
11.
KNOWLEDGE: What do you know about marriage? What is the source of your
knowledge? What do you know about men and women? My people perish not
for plenty of devils but for ignorance. Read, read and read. That's part
of how I became De Love Guru. I read a Lot.
Coming Next is,
"How to Distinguish Between A Lover & A Friend In 12 Ways. Marry
your friend. Don't marry your Lover. A friend can be a lover but a lover
is not always a friend.
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NOTE: Jesus is not Mad at you. He is not against you. He is not looking
for a reason to cast you away. He is in Love with you. Have you
accepted him as your Lord and Savior?
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